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Mardi , le 3 avril 2007
Thuesday, April 3 2007 |
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Bizzare bizzare |
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Un message aux médias
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…
les médias SONT aussi déconnectés de la réalité que les politiciens.
Le
poids des mots et des images reflète leurs propres aspirations (les
auteurs veulent dire « préjugés »; il n’y avait qu’a voir quel sycophante
Bernard de Rome fut avec Françoise David, la leadeurE de Québec
Suicidiare, alors qu’il fut très agressif avec Mario Dumont; le Parti
vert, tout aussi marginal, fut traité distraitement).
Les
chroniqueurs, journalistes, animateurs d'émissions de télé, tous les
politiciens qui s'invitent et s'encensent mutuellement …SONT … des
bien-pensants? Parfois, ils deviennent même politiciens ou vice versa.
Ces
«faiseurs de nouvelles» … se retrouvent … dans les mêmes conférences de
presse, les mêmes cocktails et autres réunions pour ajuster leur langue de
bois et leurs opinions en fonction des idées à la mode dans les bars
branchés.
Les bien-pensants, ce sont ces intellectuels «enrichis» habiles à
maquiller la vérité en jouant sur les mots (i.e. a MENTIR), les chiffres
et même certaines valeurs. Ils en modifient le sens et la portée afin de
leur donner une apparence de vérité. Bien plus que d'informer, leur but
consiste à influencer l'opinion publique. (i.e. ils font de la PROPAGANDE
… « progressiste »)
…
chers amis, vous êtes déconnectés, votre crédibilité s'effrite, sortez un
peu de la métropole, élargissez le cercle de vos fréquentations.
(En
effet, sortez donc de votre « provincialisme » montréalais, élargissez vos
esprits étroits et bornés …).
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« Plate-forme pour l'égalité des femmes » : pour se
préparer aux élections au Québec, le 26 mars 2007
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La Ville de Montréal adopte son projet de politique
d'égalité des femmes et des hommes
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"Aujourd'hui,
l'Amérique serait outrée si les troupes des Nations Unies entraient dans Los
Angeles pour restaurer l'ordre. Demain elle en sera reconnaissante! Ceci est
particulièrement vrai s'il leur était dit qu'un danger extérieur, qu'il soit
réel ou promulgué, menace leur existence. C'est alors que les peuples du
monde demanderont à être délivrés de ce mal. L'unique chose que tous les
hommes craignent est l'inconnu. Confrontés à ce scénario, les droits
individuels seront volontairement abandonnés au profit de la garantie de
leur bien-être assuré par le gouvernement mondial."
Henry Kissinger, Conférence Bilderberg, Evians, France, 1991
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Les
Franc-maçons du Québec
Le
13 janvier 1946 Louis Saint-Laurent, le premier ministre du Canada, s'adresse
à la première assemblée générale des Nations unies pour proposer l'institution
d'un gouvernement mondial
Le
20 décembre 2006, Jean-Claude Turcotte, l'archevêque du diocèses de Montréal
parle d'instituer un gouvernement mondial
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Déclaration des femmes pour la souveraineté alimentaire
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Appel de propositions de projet - Jeunes femmes,
féminisme et perspectives futures
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brought
the sportster home/wife not happy
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Deadbeat parents to appear on pizza boxes
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Avril le mois des grosses couennes

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Hunt
With (D)ick Cheney on Election Day
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CNN
Vid: Lou Dobbs Says End of America NAFTA Superhighway
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CNN
Video - 200 Active Duty Soldiers Dissent on the Iraq War
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CNN
Video:Lou Dobbs Slams CFR & North American Union
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Rosa Montero, feminist activist, doesn´t accept discrimination against
men/artículo de Rosa Montero en EL PAIS de Madrid
Rose Montero, the famous Spanish columnist and novelist of El Paìs,
member of the critical feminista current �the other feminists�, the
past Tuesday published this plea against masculine discriminació n
and the �Integral Law of Measures of Protection against Gender
Violence� of 2004, law that consecrates positive discriminacion
because of sex in penal matter.
Tes ROSE MONTERO
NOSOTRAS (We)
ROSE MONTERO
20/03/2007
THE COUNTRY
According to data of the Office of the public prosecutor of Madrid, the
last year 2,589 crimes of violence were perpetrated in this Community
committed by women against their pairs: 698 by spouses, 547 by ex-
spouses, 587 by pairs in fact and 757 by ex- pairs. It is an impressive
number, even considering that some of these crimes can be based on false
accusations, because it is not rare that a maltratador denounces its
victim to protect itself. In any case, the amount of women demons
returns to reaffirm to me in my displeasure before the well-meaning Law
of Violence of Gender. A law that only contemplates to the woman like
victim and the man like twig is outside the reality, it is
discriminating and therefore sexist, and can produce more evils than
benefits, because probably it aggravates the feeling of frustration and
the aggressiveness of that horde of suffered brain damaged �machistas�
that only know to resolve their insecurity by being violent. In fact, in
the last year I have received several letters of desperate readers
because they feel unprotected ante the law.
Separated men who are not able to see their children, or who
were falsely
accused of violence. The certain thing is that between the
lawyers and the judges is known that in some demands of divorce the wife
denounces automatically in order
to squeeze the spouse. And without a doubt it is continued
prioritizing in excess the woman at the time of remaining with the
children. Recently the safekeeping of its two children to a mother took
off to him who operated them like actors. The demand presented/displayed
by a female lawyer and the sentence dictated a female judge, and
probably thanks to that the case that the case were taken by women it
was possible
to save the children of that abuse. Perhaps if had been men thew
wouldn´t have had enough courage to decide in that way, or they had not
wanted to leave the
hipervaloration of the maternal right, that nothing buy more
sexism, and that instead of protecting us chains us to the traditional
paper of woman-mother. I know about the constant horror of the sexist
violence, and the atronador pain of so many burned beaten, stabbed
victims alive, forces to us to demand an urgent social answer. But I do
not believe that to discriminate against the men it is the way.
Rosa Montero, la famosa novelista española y columnista de El Pais,
integrada en la corriente feminista crítica "las otras feministas",
publicó el pasado martes este alegato contra la discriminació n
masculina y contra la "Ley Integral de Medidas de Protección contra la
Violencia de Género" de 2004, ley que consagra la discriminació n
positiva por razón de sexo en materia penal.
ROSA MONTERO
Nosotras
ROSA MONTERO
20/03/2007
EL PAIS
Vota
Resultado 182 votos
Según datos de la Fiscalía de Madrid, el año pasado se perpetraron en
esta Comunidad 2.589 delitos de violencia cometidos por mujeres contra
sus parejas: 698 por esposas, 547 por ex esposas, 587 por parejas de
hecho y 757 por ex parejas. Es una cifra impresionante, aun teniendo en
cuenta que algunos de estos delitos pueden estar basados en falsas
acusaciones, pues no es raro que un
maltratador denuncie a su víctima para protegerse. En cualquier
caso, el monto de mujeres energúmenas vuelve a reafirmarme en mi
desagrado ante la bienintencionada Ley de Violencia de Género. Una ley
que sólo contempla a la mujer como víctima y al hombre como verdugo está
fuera de la realidad, es discriminadora y por lo tanto sexista, y puede
producir más males que beneficios, porque probablemente agrave el
sentimiento de frustración y la agresividad de esa horda de machistas
descerebrados que sólo saben solventar su inseguridad siendo violentos.
De hecho, en el último año he recibido varias cartas de lectores
desesperados porque se sienten desprotegidos ante la ley. Hombres
separados que no consiguen ver a sus hijos, o que dicen haber sido
acusados de violencia falsamente. Lo cierto es que entre los abogados
y los jueces se sabe que en algunas demandas de divorcio la esposa
denuncia automáticamente por maltrato para estrujar al cónyuge. Y sin
duda se sigue priorizando en exceso a la mujer a la hora de quedarse
con los niños. Hace poco se le quitó la custodia de sus dos hijos a
una madre que los explotaba como actores. La demanda la presentó una
abogada y la sentencia la dictó una juez, y probablemente gracias a
que el caso lo llevaron dos mujeres se consiguió salvar a los niños de
ese abuso. Porque si hubieran sido hombres tal vez no se hubieran
atrevido, o no hubieran querido abandonar la
hipervaloració n del derecho materno, que no es más que
machismo, y que en vez de protegernos nos encadena al papel
tradicional de mujer-madre. Sé bien que el horror constante de la
violencia sexista, y el dolor atronador de
tantísimas víctimas apaleadas, apuñaladas o quemadas vivas, nos
obliga a exigir una respuesta social urgente. Pero
no creo que discriminar a los hombres sea el camino.
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Bush
to Give Immunity To Himself - Congress Again Bends Over
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Shut
up
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Une
larme?
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Font-tu assez pitié
Mères célibataires et infanticides à Montréal
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Font chier
Loveland story isn't
Dr Charles
Corry
Love and marriage in the new millennium
They started dating in high school and married on September 3, 2000. A
child soon followed and another a couple of years later. As with most
young couples with children, times were tough although they managed to
purchase a house.
She was in charge of family finances, but didn't do well at it. In 2005
they were hit with foreclosure on their home. After 5 years of marriage
they separated in June 2005 at her request, supposedly because she felt
bad about the foreclosure. She was then 24 and Jason was 27.
She complained that she had never been on her own she needed some time,
and wanted to force herself to learn to mange money. She assured Jason it
was a temporary situation and he reluctantly agreed, all the while asking
that they go to marriage counseling. She refused.
But there was more to the story. She had gone back to school in September
2003 and Jason was the parent taking care of the children from the time he
picked them up from daycare until they went to bed. Then she decided
nightlife was more exciting than her family. It started as just once a
week, but soon grew into every night in the local bars while, after Jason
got the kids to bed, he'd lie awake waiting for her to come home drunk
around 3 AM. He'd try to talk to her about the problem, to no avail, and
then he'd have to get up at 5:30 AM to go to work. That went on from
December 2004 until their separation in June 2005. All the while their
debts were mounting.
Even through this Jason never gave up on his children or family. He found
a place to live, took care of the house foreclosure, and began to gain
control over his life again. Her response was to treat him worse and worse
with every new day.
Jason was naturally confused about what was going on but was trying hard
to make things work for the sake of his family. After their separation he
was paying for half the children's daycare and lent her money for the
damage deposit on her apartment, and other things she needed. She wanted
nothing to do with him unless she needed money. Needless to say, the
relationship was getting worse, not better, and they both knew it.
Enter the
DV and divorce industry
On August 21, 2005, after being separated for 2 months, Jason picked up
their two boys (then 2 and 5) with the intent of going to Horsetooth
Reservoir with his brother for a day of Sunday boating. However, the
weather was windy and his brother decided not to get the boat out.
Instead, they all went to Jason's mother's house to swim in her pool.
Jason took the kids back to
their mother at 7:30 PM but when she found out they had gone swimming
instead of boating she became irrationally angry. She insisted Jason should
have called her and threatened to never let him see the kids again. He
apologized for not calling but hadn't thought that it was a big deal that
they went to his mother's home and not to the lake. Certainly the kids were
safer playing in the pool with dad than in a small boat on a lake on a
blustery day.
After she had vented her
spleen, Jason tried to give her a hug as he was leaving, as he customarily
did. She got angry again and kicked him out. He went home, upset and sad as
he had countless times before, but not thinking anything more of it.
Jason had the kids again the
next day and took them back to their mother around 9 PM without further
incident.
Then he had them again on Wednesday, August
24, 2005. This time when he took them back to their mother at 7:30 PM the
Loveland police were waiting for him. They informed him that his wife had
filed a domestic violence charge against him
claiming he had grabbed her and tried to sexually assault her on Sunday when
he'd brought the children home .*1
Note that the police were not responding to an incident in progress but he
was arrested without a warrant, underwent a full body-cavity search, and
spent 26 hours in the Larimer County Detention Center before being released
on a personal-recognizance bond with the required mandatory restraining
order that stated he could not see his kids.
In the two months prior to
his arrest, Jason had been hospitalized for depression, tried to convince
wife to go to marriage counseling, which she refused to do despite her
insistence she didn't want a divorce, let her move out because she said she
needed some time to sort things out and learn to manage finances on her own.
And now, because of the domestic violence charge, Jason lost his job.
Neither one had yet filed for divorce.
Jason later learned, through
conversations and emails that friends and his brother's fiancé shared with
him, that his wife had been planning this for several months. When they
separated she moved into an apartment for which she had been on a wait list
for 6 months. She also took every single piece of furniture and possession
that they had worked for throughout the marriage.
She left him with the
credit card bills and the delinquent mortgage.
*1.
Case 2005M201226 - Domestic Violence. Statute 18-3-204 Assault 3 -
Knowingly/Recklessly causing injury. Class: Misdemeanor 1. Event date:
8/21/2005. Arrest date: 8/24/2005. Case Close date: 6/15/2006.
Finding the
right lawyer
On September 1, 2005, Jason met with a
highly-recommended domestic violence lawyer in Loveland.*2
This attorney advised Jason from the beginning not to take his case to
trial. He claimed that Loveland was such a conservative town that the
majority of domestic violence cases that went before a jury resulted in a
conviction simply because of the nature of the crime. Her word against his
was nearly all it took in most cases. Because the prosecutor claimed there
were pictures of bruises, Jason was told he had little to no chance of
winning even before he saw the "evidence." He also told Jason that if he
was convicted it would be on his record permanently. But this incompetent
shyster didn't mention that a plea bargain is a conviction and would
remain on Jason's record permanently as well. Nor was Jason told that a
guilty plea would prevent him from being the custodial parent of his sons.
It took this attorney nearly 7 months after requesting copies of the
pictures prosecutors claimed showed bruises on his wife to finally obtain
them. In the interim Jason still hadn't been arraigned, and thus his right
to a speedy trial was circumvented. Once they did receive the pictures, no
bruises were visible except one very light mark on her forearm. Of course
there are any number of explanations as to why someone might have a mark
on their arm and the pictures were apparently not taken until 3 days after
she claimed she was assaulted. Any reasonably competent criminal defense
attorney should have been able to discredit such "evidence."
Despite the weakness of the evidence against him, the attorney told Jason
again that his best option was to plead guilty and plea bargain for a
deferred sentence. Jason was told that if he had no further incidents the
DV charge would be dropped and, for a fee, his record could be sealed.
This attorney's misrepresentation is typical of unscrupulous attorneys who
take clients retainers and then sell them down the river with a plea
bargain.
Lacking the zealous
representation of a competent attorney, and without prior knowledge or
experience with the legal system, Jason then took the plea bargain.
*2 .
At the time the EJF had this attorney on our list of recommended attorneys
as well. However, any attorney who proposes up front that their client
take a plea bargain in a DV case is automatically removed. Unfortunately,
it is usually only through cases like Jason's that we learn about how an
attorney actually handles DV cases as compared to what they claim to do.
She files
for divorce
Any veteran of the
DV and divorce industry knows the next step in the game is for the wife to
file for divorce now that she has custody of the kids and a restraining
order. Following the script, Jason was served divorce papers on September
28, 2005, demanding full custody of their two boys.
About 3 weeks after filing the DV charge, she had her father give Jason a
letter telling him the only way he could see the kids was if he paid her
for some of her expenses and met several other demands. She dictated how
and when his time with the kids was to be spent. Withholding parenting
time for money is against Colorado state law and even the female judge
called the letter a ransom note. But no penalties attached to her unlawful
demands.
The divorce was naturally a bitter one and
legal fees for a divorce attorney alone were $4,000. The DV lawyer cost an
additional $1,000 to do nothing but destroy Jason's life. A lot of money
for someone who had next to nothing and a mountain of debt to start with.
With a DV charges, and later conviction, the family court was against
Jason from the outset. No matter how much Jason wanted to be a father for
his boys, he became simply a paycheck.
Both during the temporary orders hearing on November 15, 2005, and the
final orders hearing on February 22, 2006, she was caught lying, but
nothing was done. Ultimately, because she had controlled the parenting
time for so long, and with a restraining and no contact order in place so
he could not contact her or see his boys unless she allowed it, she was
given full custody. The boys now can only see their father four times a
month, every other weekend and on alternating weeks every other Monday.
However, because of
hard evidence that his wife was incapable of managing her finances, which
had resulted in the boys jumping from one daycare to another, child support
payments are made directly to daycare providers instead of to her. So
neither parent wins, the kids lose, and the DV and divorce industry grows
richer.
The
ongoing vendetta
Since
Jason's domestic violence charge, three additional formal complaints have
been made that demonstrate how Jason's ex-wife tries to use the legal
system to secure control over situations she wants changed, and to ensure
Jason and his family have minimal contact with his boys.
Two weeks after the temporary orders hearing, on November 30, 2005,
Jason's wife called the Larimer County sheriff, case #05-771, on Jason's
father, with whom Jason is living, to investigate an unsafe house. She
claimed the drinking water was brown, the house was unclean, there were no
beds for the children to sleep on and that they were being made to sleep
on the floor, etc. Jason was not home the day the sheriff came, and
Jason's dad wisely refused to let the sheriff inspect the house without a
warrant.
Following that complaint, on
December 27, 2005, social services caseworker Mykel Flory came to Jason's
father's house to investigate a report of the house being unsafe. This time
Jason was home and let her in. In Jason's words the social worker was
stunned after inspecting the house and finding nothing. She asked why Jason
thought someone would do that and he explained the divorce situation. Ms.
Flory's comment was that she would advise the caller about the difference
between a legitimate concern and a false report.
Their divorce was
final March 1, 2006, but that was hardly the end of her vindictiveness.
On March 9, 2006, Jason's
now ex-wife again filed a complaint with the Loveland Police Department,
incident # 06-13008, against Daniel Peterson (Jason's stepfather) for making
threats against her when she came to pick up the boys from his mother and
stepfather's house (Jason's parents and Jason's former in-laws provide drop
off and pick up locations for the boys).
Jason's divorce lawyer also
received a call from his wife's attorney saying that Daniel threatened her
and she "feared for her life."
Daniel's son was at home and
heard the conversation. No threat was ever made. What did happen was Daniel
asked her if she was getting married because one of the little boys had been
very upset that night and told Jason he got in trouble for having a black
crayon in his pocket that ruined her wedding dress that she had washed the
night before. Daniel offered advice and expressed concern about what she
said around the boys to avoid upsetting them. The conversation was friendly
and at its end, she and Daniel agreed if there was anything else like this
that ever came up to call each other or exchange emails. The following night
Daniel was taken completely off guard by the phone call from the police.
Then in late July of 2006
she filed another false report with the Loveland Police Department that
Jason didn't have car seats in his jeep when he had the boys. Jason did
notice police cars being around the drop off point for the next few weeks,
wasting resources better used elsewhere for public safety.
After completing domestic violence treatment,
obtaining unsupervised probation status, and numerous emails back and
forth between Jason and his ex-wife regarding issues about their boys,
Jason told his ex-wife he planned on attending the boys' yearly doctor
exams on March 16, 2007. Jason had only ever missed one of his boys doctor
appointments prior to separating.
When his ex-wife realized the restraining order/no contact order was no
longer in effect, she immediately filed another temporary restraining
order based solely on the previous (almost 2 year old) DV charge. A
hearing on her request to impose a permanent restraining order on Jason
was held Wednesday, March 28, 2007. Her request was denied and the
temporary order was lifted.
However, there is absolutely
no reason she can't go "judge shopping" and find one more sympathetic to her
fears that the boy's father might actually want to be informed about their
medical condition. Or she can make up any other excuse with the help of a
publicly-funded "victim advocate" or shelter worker since there are
no penalties for making false allegations of abuse and subornation of
perjury is not a crime in Colorado.
Such games can, and do go on
for years while the children's lives are destroyed and the DV and divorce
industry grow rich from the public purse.
The saddest thing about
this story is that it is so typical.
(This is the story of of a US brother but
his story is ours....JS)
In
a Time of Deceit the Truth is a Revolutionary Act" -- George Orwell
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Aux organisateur du Forum social
québécois:
Problème d'orientation thématique : féminisme;
l'égalité concerne les hommes aussi.
Bonjour,
Je suis émerveillé et excité par la mise sur pied d'un tel projet que le
votre. Il est impératif que de tels forums se mettent en place au Québec pour
orienter la société vers la démocratie et les enjeux qui nous concerne
vraiment, tout en sortant du politique. Cependant un grande faille à votre
concept m'interpelle et me consterne. Il s'agit de l'égalité sexuelle.
La thématique que vous abordez sur le sujet de l'égalité est très claire: Les
enjeux et stratégies féministes. Un sentiment de pathétisme m'envai face au
constat du choix que vous avez fait jusqu'à maintenant par rapport à
l'orientation sur le sujet. Pourquoi parler de féminisme, alors que le sujet
et le débat de fond devrait être L'égalité Sexuelle. Il existe une énorme
différence entre les deux. Le féminisme est une idéologie qui se consacre à
faire en sorte que les femmes obtiennent de plus en plus de gain dans toutes
les sphères sociales pour atteindre l'égalité entre les hommes et les femmes.
Le mouvement se concentre UNIQUEMENT sur les besoin des femmes. Pour résumé ce
que je veux apporter à vos yeux, le féminisme à pour but de conquérir l
'égalité des femmes. Le
problème ici, c'est qu'il existe dans notre société, depuis que ce mouvement a
débuté, de l'inégalité chez les hommes de notre société, et ce par rapport aux
femmes. Le vrai enjeux ici est donc d'amener le débat vers l'
égalité sexuelle et non pas
vers l'égalité des femmes. Différents termes, différentes idées de fond. Le
terme même de féminisme se rapporte aux femmes, faudrait-il pour les hommes
créer un consortium masculin? Je crois que tout le monde est d'accord que de
telles mesures favorisent la guerre des sexes et que nous voulons tous la paix
des sexes!
Alors voilà ce que je demande: changer le thème titré ''Les enjeux et
stratégies féministes'' par ''L'égalité sexuelle'' er orienter le débat vers
l'égalité et non vers les femmes. Ne creusez pas une tranché sexuelle qui
favorise la guerre. Cela étant dit, je suis disposé à vos proposition et
demande qu'en à la participation dans ce domaine, soit en terme d'organisation
ou autre. Merci de considérer avec le sérieux que vous vous devez d'avoir le
problème auquel l'intégrité du Forum Social Québécois fait face.
Bien à vous,
Philippe
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"DADDY'S GONE!"
April 7th, World Memorial Day
On the April 7th 2007, Rome will be holding the
first World Memorial Day in
remembrance of all those fathers who killed themselves,
destroyed by the
pain because the contacts with their children were blocked in separation.
Last year, in the European Union (source E.U.), 2.000 fathers killed
themselves as they were prevented in seeing their children after the
separation.
The symbol date of 7th April originates from the suicide of the Aosta
(Northern Italy) Junior School teacher, Andrea Sonatore, who gave himself
fire in front of the Court House at Aosta as the judge prevented him from
seeing his daughter after the separation with his wife.
Many countries all over the world will be partecipating this celebration;
last year this event has been held in several Italian cities ( Rome , Milan ,
Caserta , Palermo ).
Nobel prize Dario Fo expressed his solidarity at Milan .
The list of associates will soon follow.
The Fathers Army
Giorgio Ceccarelli
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Canadian Conference on Men's Health
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Le boycott de la Banque Nova Scotia s’impose
(recherche, R. Tremblay)
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F4J Shared Parenting online
petition
For all of you who were concerned of security
issues with the F4J
Shared Parenting online petition,
I have requested appropriate changes at Petition Online and their tech
support people have come through. Your postal address no longer appears in
the public signature list, but it remains a mandatory field for the printed
list that will be submittted to parliament. Only your name, a YES/NO field
for Age of Majority, and your comments appear in the public list.
Please let's use the power of the internet
and public scrutiny to show our government and judiciary that reforms are
long overdue.
(recherche, R. Tremblay)
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EJF newsletter - Ottawa's notorious Bill 117
comes to Colorado 3/23/07
Background
In the fall of 2000 legislators in Ottawa, Canada,
introduced Bill 117 that provided that any woman could have a man
restrained, imprisoned, and his property transferred to her all in the same
day without any pretense of due process. Writing for the Ottawa Citizen,
columnist Dave Brown noted:
"The new legislation is based on the premise
women in abusive relationships can't escape because they are economically
dependent. The intent is to correct this by making it possible to
immediately transfer all property to her.
Written into the scheme are ex parte
applications. The alleged abuser doesn't have to be present when the order
seizing his property is made. Application for an Intervention Order can be
made by anyone in a one-to-one relationship, including dating.
...It will take precedence over any acquittal,
dismissal or withdrawal of a criminal charge, or any order under any
statute, including the Divorce Act.
Transference of property will include leased property, even if she is
only a date, and is binding on the landlord. If rent is in arrears, the
landlord must collect from him. She will have no liability."
While I understand Bill 117 became law it has
rarely, if ever, been enforced as the inherent violations of English law are
so blatant that even today's courts would be likely to quickly void it.
However, that does not mean the idea and process have faded away.
In
Your Lucky Night,
written in 2002, I put forth an example of how, under Colorado law, a woman
can pick up a man in a bar and end up with all his property and possessions
by obtaining an ex parte restraining order claiming abuse or domestic
violence. Since writing that essay many men have contacted the Equal Justice
Foundation to tell us how something very similar was done to them. And
EJF member Elizabeth
has described how an illegal alien has done this to her father and is
gaining U.S. citizenship in the process under VAWA, another all-too-common
fraud.
Male victims of this fraud have naturally reacted
to this outrage by not paying the rent, cutting off the utilities and phone,
closing joint accounts and credit cards, canceling insurance, stopping car
payments, etc. We have also advised a number of men that their best, and
probably only option, was to let the bank foreclose on their house. And many
women have found the promises of the DV and divorce industry were a
financial and personal disaster for them and the children.
Apparently the number of men unwilling to pay
some doxy's rent, or the mortgage on the house where his wife's new boy toy
now lives because of false allegations of abuse has become unacceptably
large and redfems have demanded draconian legislation to "correct' the
situation.
Colorado's Democratic Peoples Soviet to
the rescue
State senator John Morse (D-El Paso County*
mailto:john.morse.senate@state.co.us ) has been happy to oblige by
introducing
SB07-136, which
provides that Colorado courts can now require men to pay for
"...rent and mortgage payments, telephone and
utility services, child care costs, temporary possession of personal
property, and insurance,"
when issuing an ex parte restraining order. Note also
that there is no requirement that "child care costs" be limited to the man's
biological children.
Currently the Colorado Senate has passed this
bill unanimously and it is undergoing final passage by the House.
Upon signature by the governor any woman who is
angry at her boyfriend, a "working girl" on South Nevada near Fort Carson in
Colorado Springs, or a wife having an affair can claim they are "Victims of
domestic violence...unable to access resources to seek lasting safety
options;" and have their living expenses guaranteed by filing an ex parte
restraining order.
Of course, under Morse's scheme, a man who fails
to pay the rent or mortgage, etc., will go to jail for violating the
restraining order, no doubt losing his job and income in the process. By
casting a man into the street with an ex parte restraining order, and then
jailing him, the entire family is now left without support. While that suits
the interests of the DV industry and the welfare bureaucracy, it is
destroying our society.
SB07-136 also claims that "Thirty-three states
recognize existing legal obligations for support, payment, or ownership of
personal or real property in order to protect victims in civil protection
orders." However, Ottawa, Canada, is the only other case I've seen of such
complete disregard of civil rights and apparently deliberate attempt to
destroy families and marriage.
Feeding the DV and divorce industry
It is also of interest to note that the best
estimate of actual domestic violence is from the
National Crime Victim Surveys (NCVS)
that suggests only 1 in 250 (0.04%) of households a year suffer what
citizen's regard as a criminal DV incident. From that estimate there would
be fewer than 8,000 DV incidents in Colorado a year. However, for fiscal
year 2006 Colorado courts report
7,237 restraining orders were issued for domestic
abuse and
14,123 misdemeanor cases of domestic violence,
wherein a restraining order is mandatory, for a total of at least 21,360
restraining orders (felony cases are not included). On the face of it there
appear to be 2.5 times more DV court cases than citizens are reporting to
the statisticians at NCVS. Clearly there is reason to suspect domestic
violence laws are being grossly abused.
It cannot be claimed that false allegations by
women in order to obtain a restraining order are uncommon or new. The June
11, 1998, edition of Denver's
Westword documented a
case of
two sisters making a game of charging men with DV.
The EJF has heard numerous cases of women getting a restraining order and
giving their boyfriend's address as their residence, then selling off all
his possessions. A woman in Colorado Springs was caught after her third
round of that game. Other women have probably been even more successful.
And, when caught, virtually nothing is done to these women.
Additionally, fewer than 8,000 cases of domestic
violence a year in a state with a population of 4.7 million does not
represent an epidemic and hardly mandates draconian legislation directing
the ex parte seizure of men's property in direct violation of their civil
rights.
The basis for such tyrannical legislation becomes
clearer when we note there were
24,750 divorce (dissolution of marriage) petitions
filed during 2006 in Colorado, a number rather close to the 21,360
restraining orders issued. And what better way to encourage the destruction
of marriages, families, and relationships than by guaranteeing a woman the
house, the car, the kids, the bank account, and anything else she wants if
she files a restraining order or calls 911 without giving a man the chance
to defend himself.
The similarity of such measures as SB07-136 to
the
Russian Effort To Abolish Marriage
after the 1917 Bolshevik Revolution seems so blatantly obvious that the
Colorado soviet must be either brain dead or deliberately enacting the
redfem ideology into law.
Charles E. Corry, Ph.D., F.G.S.A.
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* The
sponsor of this abomination,
John Morse, is a
freshman state senator without previous experience, who has chosen to dive
off the deep end without checking to see if the pool is full of cow manure.
Morse lists his occupation as "executive" but a more traditional title for
what he is doing would be commissar.
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The good men may do separately is
small compared with what they may do collectively.
Benjamin Franklin
(recherche, R. Tremblay)
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Fathers helping fathers
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Depuis mars 2006,
une vaste campagne de sensibilisation à
la violence conjugale a été lancée au début de l'année 2006
afin de contrer la violence faite à l'égard des femmes. Axée sur le caractère
inacceptable et criminel de la violence conjugale, cette campagne vise
l'ensemble de la population québécoise.
La première phase de
cette campagne a permis d'attirer l'attention de la population en général sur la
violence conjugale et de rendre possible un
grand mouvement de mobilisation et de dénonciation
publique qui a été bénéfique pour de nombreuses femmes.
La deuxième phase
a permis de réaffirmer le caractère
inacceptable et criminel de la violence conjugale en
invitant les victimes et les témoins à aller chercher de l'aide auprès de
l'organisme d'aide et de référence
SOS violence conjugale.
Un volet de cette
campagne s'adresse aux nations autochtones. Pour ce volet, des activités de
promotion et de prévention adaptées à la réalité des nations amérindiennes et
inuit sont en cours de réalisation, et ce, conjointement avec la Table de
concertation pour le mieux-être autochtone et la Société Makivik.
Quant à la troisième
phase, elle a pour objectif d'insister sur le fait que
certains actes de violence conjugale sont criminels
et, de ce fait, passibles de mesures pénales.
http://www.mfacf.gouv.qc.ca/thematiques/violence_conjugale/index.asp
S.O.S. violence conjugale
MJQ
$446,432.00 Adresse
SOS est peut-être la vache à lait
de CENTRE DES FEMMES DU PLATEAU MONT-ROYAL. Une façon de s’envoyer des
« clientes » afin de maintenir l’excuse d’être financé par les taxes des
citoyens?
PS. La rue St-Joseph du Paletau,
est bourré d’OSBL.
Le fouineur!
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Métro,
Boulot, Domestico .
Ou, la
triple journée de la femme
En effet,
le matin, dans les transports en communs, la femme lit des magazines féminins
où elle apprend comment soigner sa famille, ou bien de nouvelles recettes de
cuisine ou de tricot.
Il s’agit
d’un travail intellectuel intense , tout en surveillant ses stations . Double
activité !
L’homme ,
lui , lit un journal sportif ; c’est un temps de loisir !
Au boulot,
la femme ne perd pas une minute ! Outre le texte à taper, il faut écouter les
demandes incessantes du chef, répondre par téléphone aux clients…
Si elle
téléphone pour des causes personnelles, pour un temps toujours trop court,
c’est pour prendre des nouvelles de leur santé et leur donner des conseils
avisés, puisés dans le magazine du matin. Encore une double , voire triple
activité .
L’homme ,
lui, passe son temps sur son ordinateur…à jouer à des jeux vidéos ou à
chercher des photos pornos ( qui perturbent le travail de la femme quand elle
les regarde ). Puis il fréquente assidûment la machine à café pour raconter
des blagues salaces à ses copains.
Il s’agit
de loisirs plus que de travail !
Mais le
soir au foyer, c’est bien pire .
En chemin,
elle organise mentalement sa soirée : pas une seconde à perdre !
Achats
nécessaires au repas du soir, ½ h, préparation des légumes , encore ½
h,cuisson, ¾ h de plus , écoute de la radio pour y glaner des conseils
ménagers, 1H ½ supplémentaires, et même ½ h de ménage . Sans compter le
lave-linge qui tourne et qu’il faut surveiller. Elle arrive à caser 6h
d’activités en 2h !
L’homme,
lui, part en promenade avec le chien pour aller chercher les enfants chez la
nourrice, puis s’affale devant la télé avec une bière, tout en vérifiant, de
loin, les devoirs des gosses !
Puis il
fait la vaisselle en écoutant la radio. Encore du loisir !
Même la
nuit la femme travaille.
Passons
sur le remplissage du devoir conjugal, (dur, dur, quand on est fatiguée !)
Même en
dormant, elle travaille . Elle pense au robinet qui fuit et que son homme n’a
pas encore réparé, à son plan de vacances pour les enfants, à ce petit haut
aperçu en solde et à acheter d’urgence ….
L’homme, lui, à son côté, ronfle comme un sonneur !
L’enquête, de la chercheure Madeleine de Proust (
Université Paris32, experte en études Féministe )
Dans cette
étude scientifique intitulée « A la Recherche du Temps Retrouvé », basée sur
des sondages téléphoniques, elle
estime qu’en moyenne, une femme travaille 48 h par jour !Avec des pointes de
56 h pour les mères de jeunes enfants
. Et cet état de choses empire, avec toutes ces responsabilités qu’on confie
de plus en plus aux femmes !
Il est
temps de légiférer sur le partage des tâches ménagères
. Elle propose de créer un corps de « vérificatrices du partage » et de
prévoir des sanctions pour les
récalcitrants !!!
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