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Content d'être un gars
Glad to be a
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Mercredi, le 19
décembre 2007
Mercredi, December 19 2007
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"Les philosophes admettent
volontiers que l’intellect humain est incapable de trouver des réponses
définitives à de nombreuses questions fort importantes pour l’humanité,
mais ils refusent de croire qu’il existe une "plus haute" façon de
connaître, grâce à laquelle nous pouvons découvrir des vérités cachées à
la science et à l’intellect."
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La Place de la Femme
Elle est située à l'entrée de Bobo, sur la route de Ouagadougou.
Elle est dédiée à la femme pour lui rendre hommage à travers son rôle dans
la société.
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Québec
veut donner préséance à
l'égalité pour les femmes
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Into the realm of the surreal
Though many other evils exist, it is the wholesale
destruction of children, families, and marriage by a false ideology that
looms largest. Clearly the basic building blocks of our civilization are
families and millennia of experience has taught us that children learn
best, and accomplish most when raised by their father and mother in a
patriarchal family. But the rise of radical feminism in the 1960's
merged with the implementation of "no fault" divorce to begin
destruction of children, families, and marriage on a previously
unimaginable scale. As we move into the Third Millennia of the Christian
Era approximately one-half of all marriages end in divorce and, as this
is written, 38% of all children are born out-of-wedlock.
Unquestionably the future is grim for most of our
children as currently only about 15 out of 100 are born into and reach
age 18 in an intact family.
Since incorporating in 2001 the Equal Justice
Foundation has repeatedly stated that under current laws a man has to be
functionally insane to marry and a drooling idiot to sire a child. In
his popular
FredOnEverything column, Fred Reed made the same point in
July 2003.
In a November 11, 2007, newsletter, Dr. Stephen Baskerville, author of
Taken Into Custody: The War Against Fathers, Marriage, and the Family,
again called attention to the problem, a situation our society cannot
long sustain and survive.
No-fault divorce, or how to make lawyers rich and
destroy civilization
The best history of how "no fault" divorce evolved
that I'm familiar with is Judy Parejko's book
Stolen Vows. She traces the corruption of the current law to the
venal behavior of California Assemblyman James A. Hayes, who was
appointed chairman of the Assembly Judiciary Committee in 1969 while
undergoing a high-conflict divorce. Hayes used his position to advantage
in his divorce but began the destruction of marriage in general. Dr.
Baskerville gives credit for this evil to the
National Assoc. of Women Lawyers
(NAWL) and those redfems also certainly played a starring role in
the destruction of marriage we are now witnessing. However, the origin
of this societal disease can be traced to Marx and Engels who declared
that 'The class struggle begins in the family." Lenin furthered this
Marxist ideology when he grabbed power in Russia and attempted to
abolish
marriage. But we certainly failed to learn from this historical
failure in the Soviet Union.
Damn the patriarchy, full speed to destruction in the
wake of "domestic violence"
It is no secret that radical feminism blames all the
ills and misfortunes of women on the
patriarchy.
Because of this belief, in their ideology all women are victims and all
men are batterers, which is a requirement in order for men to maintain
their patriarchal privileges. Also, their dogma claims that all "domestic
violence" results from "power and control" actions taken by males in
order to preserve the patriarchy. Thus, based on feminist ideology, in
order to gain equality for women it is necessary to eliminate the
patriarchy and "restore" a more primitive matriarchal society.
This nonsense was sinking into well deserved
oblivion until Erin Pizzey founded the first shelter for battered women
in Chiswick, London, England in 1971, followed by the publication of her
book,
Scream Quietly Or The Neighbors Will Hear. As no civilized society
tolerates violence against women within its midst, Pizzey's pioneering
work gained worldwide support, including Queen Elizabeth II in England.
Unfortunately, radical, leftwing feminists (redfems)
quickly seized the issue of violence against women for their own
nefarious goals. When Erin Pizzey pointed out that women were at least
as violent as men in intimate
relationships, she was hounded into exile by the redfems leaving
them in clear possession of the now well-known and publicized "domestic
violence" issue. Hardly the first time a legitimate social issue has
been usurped by demagogues for their own purposes.
An unholy alliance
By the 1980s redfems had begun to form an unholy
alliance with lawyers (always an easily corruptible class), legislative
bodies (largely made up of lawyers), and the judiciary (more lawyers who
are ready to eat their own if they don't conform) in the name of
stopping "domestic violence."
The resultant destruction of families created
employment for lawyers as guardian ad litems (GALs) and special masters
to protect "the best interest of the child," "family" lawyers whose
actual objective is to destroy families with maximum conflict and, hence,
billable hours.
This despicable alliance also drew in, and financed
an army of parasites: psychiatrists, psychologists, sociologists, and
similar ilk by the tens of thousands. These bottom feeders came in the
guise of "chid protective services" (legalized kidnapping), "child
support enforcement" (uses police to force fathers to pay for children
stolen from them, or who might not even be their child), foster homes
that have the humanity of puppy mills, child and family evaluators to
ensure a family only behaves in a socialistically-acceptable manner, and
administrators and teachers in politically-correct schools where
children are routinely drugged and criminally charged at ages as young
as 5 or 6 for innocent games children have played since time immemorial.
While this alliance has proven to be a financial
bonanza for all players, criminal domestic violence (DV), exclusive of
the normal disagreements many couples have, is quite rare, occurring in
only about 4 out of 1,000 households (0.4%) in a given year, and there
is no evidence that the draconian DV laws have had any effect on this
problem. Note that I use Prof. Don Dutton's definition of a "batterer"
as someone who repeatedly strikes or kicks an unresisting victim when
speaking about "domestic violence." I have discussed in detail when
interactions between a couple is
not domestic violence, and when violence against a woman is
justified and even required by law. But today every loud argument
between a couple is classified as a criminal case of "domestic violence"
or abuse.
Conversely, it is clear the laws intended to control
"domestic violence" make the problem worse. There is no evidence to
suggest any domestic abuse restraining order ever protected any woman.
Research
has shown that "... Increases in willingness of prosecutors to take on
protection order violations associated with increases in homicides of
white married intimates, black unmarried intimates, and white unmarried
females."
VAWA promoted mandatory arrest in DV cases and
research now shows that in the 23 states that adopted this draconian
policy, DV homicides are 60% higher than in the other 27 states.
As noted above, half of all marriages now end in "no
fault" divorce. New York Supreme Court Judge Brian Lindsay stated, "There
is no system ever devised by mankind that is guaranteed to rip husband
and wife or father, mother and child apart so bitterly than our present
Family Court System." But this well suits redfem ideology whose
objective is to destroy the patriarchy. Certainly if marriage is
destroyed the patriarchy will fall.
Further, actual family violence is commonly
associated with mental and medical problems, the cure for which are of
little value to the DV industry and the "legal" system. Worse, the
partner suffering the mental or medical problem is commonly the female.
To circumvent these inconvenient facts, redfems and their allies have
put forth an ever expanding definition of "domestic violence" and "domestic
abuse" to keep their feeding at the public trough alive.
As the definition of domestic violence and abuse
expanded, and ever more draconian laws were passed circumventing even
the most basic protections of English law and the U.S. Constitution, it
became convenient to use DV charges and restraining orders in divorce
cases. By the 1990's the DV and divorce industry that burgeoned under
"no fault" laws had effectively merged. That merger was of great
financial benefit to both groups and, conveniently, acts to destroy the
patriarchy.
Domestic violence by the numbers: The basic script
After the passage of the
Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) in 1994 a clear pattern of legal
abuse emerged so that today there is a standard script used to destroy
children, families, and marriage. With variations we see the following
pattern on a daily basis, and about 2 million men (and some women) in
the United States go through some version of this nightmare every year:
- Woman is
tired of her marriage or boyfriend, or is having an affair and wants man
gone, but doesn't want to lose the kids, the house, the car, the bank
account, credit cards, etc. that she enjoys as a result of the marriage
or shacking up.
- She talks
with an attorney, shelter worker, victim's advocate, or similar
parasite, who advise her to take out a restraining order of file DV
charges against her husband or boyfriend. They also tell her what to say,
e.g., she is in "fear for her life," he is a "trained killer' due to his
military service, he abuses her, she is suffering emotional harm, etc.
Since perjury and subornation of perjury are virtually never punished,
any lies will do and hearsay is admissible.
- Man is then
arrested or thrown out of his home, preferably without hearing or
notice, never to return.
- Since, by
decree, he is branded as dangerous and violent, it is in "the best
interests of his children" that he he have no, or very limited contact
and visitation with them. He certainly must not have primary custody of
them.
- Man naively
thinks he has some rights and civil liberties and that if he tells the
truth the judge will listen and things will get straightened out. Wrong
again.
- His path
will fork here. Most men will believe the lies the DA tells them about
DV, or the restraining order violation, being simply a misdemeanor and
take a plea bargain. Wrong again, and he surrenders all rights to appeal,
to civil liberties, to professional licenses, security clearances, to
even rent an apartment. The outcome is the same if he takes a bench
trial before a judge, which is simply a long, slow way of pleading
guilty.
- A few will
take the very wise course of pleading not guilty and demanding a jury
trial. While this almost guarantees charges against him will eventually
be dropped or he will be acquitted, he is going to have to spend a lot
of money on an attorney. And finding a competent attorney is searching
for a needle in a haystack. His hiring an attorney escalates the
conflict and she is likely to get free legal assistance, particularly if
criminal charges are brought against him. Nothing excites and enriches
the "legal" profession more than two feuding attorneys.
- He almost
certainly loses his job (~80% chance) due to the DV conviction, all the
time he has to spend in court, mental strain (PTSD is a given), loss of
security clearance, loss of license, etc.
- Any assets
either he or she have probably go to legal fees or survival. He lives in
his car or with relatives, or becomes homeless. He can't pay child
support because he is unemployed but that doesn't stop the court from "imputing"
an income based on what the judge thinks he should be earning. When he
can't pay he is placed in debtor's prison as a "deadbeat dad." Many
times his only way out is suicide.
- After
taking everything she can from him, she shacks up with other men, who
may really be abusive either to her or any children she has. In the
meantime any medical or mental problems she has go untreated as,
obviously, everything is the fault of her ex and she is fine.
- The kids
want Dad and become rebellious. She can't handle them and child abuse or
neglect begins because there isn't any money. "Child Protective Service
(CPS)" becomes involved. Of course no redfem CPS agent in her left mind
would ever consider letting Dad take the kids. So, all too often, the
kids end up in foster care, often a recipe for even more abuse and
neglect. Don't look for many future scientists and engineers to emerge
from kids who've been through this.
- With 50% of
all marriages ending in divorce, the only defense an intelligent man
currently has is to not marry or sire any children.
Probably half the people who read this script will
react with something like: "Been there, done that!" But despite the
incredible number of men and women who go through this nightmare every
year we have found it virtually impossible to get citizens or
legislators to believe how debased, dysfunctional, and evil our "legal"
system has become unless, and until they or someone close to them
becomes involved in one of these nightmares. And I have been astounded
to find that even men caught up in such a legal nightmare are still
denying its existence. Their reaction, though they are destitute and
convicted by their own plea bargain, is a specious claim that they are
going to sue. It is no wonder the courts mock them.
For skeptics, Dr. Stephen Baskerville has
extensively documented this corruption in his recent book,
Taken Into Custody. In it Baskerville considers Freud and his
theory of patricide, but ignores the much greater influence of Freud's
cousin, Edward
Bernays, who created the field of public relations and its offshoot,
the marketing of lifestyle and consumerism. Bernay's work, and that of
his colleagues and disciples, provided means for crowd control and
manipulation that have been successfully used by governments, redfems,
and the divorce industry. One finds clear evidence of such manipulation
in terms such as "deadbeat dads" and the government bureaucracy that is
built around child support enforcement.
Unfortunately, those who work to preserve children,
families, and marriage have not mastered the art of public relations or
evolved the necessary catch phrases. "Shared parenting," often heard
from father's rights groups, for example, contains the death of a
marriage within it and inherently accepts defeat. And there is certainly
no bureaucracy to carry the burden of family preservation, only to
collect child support.
The "legal" profession doesn't grow rich, nor
government expand if a marriage endures and children are raised by mom
and dad.
From prosecution to persecution
Ever expanding definitions of "domestic violence," "sexual
assault," "rape", and "abuse" created a bonanza for prosecutors and
judges. Begun by the
War on Drugs in the 1970s, prosecutors found they were no longer
bound by such outdated concepts as providing
due process, establishing
mens rea (gulity mind),
and proving a crime was actually committed (actus
reus). A simple claim by a woman, no matter how blatantly false,
became sufficient to establish guilt beyond a reasonable doubt. Examples
of prosecutorial excesses generated by lack of such restraints abound.
Perhaps the best current example is that of
Mike Nifong in
North Carolina and his prosecution of rape charges that he had to know
were false. The books
Dreams of Ada and John Grisham's
The Innocent Man document convictions for murder of four innocent
men in just the small town of Ada, Oklahoma by one obsessed district
attorney. Another disgusting example is
John "Chuck" Magera,
state Dept. of Social Services attorney for South Carolina. Those are
hardly exceptions of headline-seeking district attorneys.
And persecution extends to even the most petty acts.
Men throwing
crayons or a
snowball find themselves arrested and prosecuted in the name of
defending women against "abuse."
Prosecutors now measure their success by numbers of
convictions, usually measured in plea bargains, no matter how petty or
outrageous, rather than by how well they serve justice.
Family court: an antonym
In
Taken Into Custody Dr. Baskerville documents in detail the sick,
despicable, dangerous beast the "family courts" have become. Judges, who
should be neutral arbiters of justice, have become the major support of
divorce and DV industries whose objective is to entrap men by deceit,
stealth, and surprise before they can mount a defense traditionally
supplied by due process.
Courts have abdicated their role in ensuring warrants were required
before an arrest could be made, that prosecutors met their burden of
proof beyond a reasonable doubt, that property rights were honored, and
to ensure that the rights of children and families to live their own
lives was protected.
Attorney David Heleniak has shown how domestic
violence and family courts have become modern
Star Chambers, where the
proceedings are secret and virtually no defense is possible. As the
Star Chamber
did in England during the 16th and 17th centuries, modern DV and familiy
courts have become a byword for unfair judicial proceedings.
Dean Roscoe Pound once said: "the powers of the star chamber were a
trifle in comparison with those of our juvenile courts and courts of
domestic relations."
In many cases under the guise of "the best interest
of the child," courts have permitted "child protective services" to
become little more than a rubber stamp for legalized kidnapping of
children.
There is no better place to lay the problems with
the destruction of children, families, and marriage today than on the
courthouse steps. And my condemnation scarcely scratches the surface of
court corruption.
Torture: Abu Ghraib spreads across America
As her humanitarian work was usurped by redfems,
Erin Pizzey presciently noted that "Any country that has tried to create
a political solution to human problems has ended up with concentration
camps and gulags." With a current prison population of about 2.2 million
men and women, we have reached that point.
It is characteristic of the authoritarian agents
required to maintain gulags that they resort to brutality and torture.
As they are nothing more than "deadbeat dads" and "wife beaters" in the
totalitarian view of their jailers, men are tortured and beaten with
nightsticks, pepper-sprayed, punched, tasered, have the nerves in their
hands damaged by improperly applied handcuffs, subjected to sleep
deprivation, hypothermia, and put in stress positions familiar to anyone
who saw the Abu
Ghraib pictures from Iraq.
One method of torture we have not heard of in use
within the United States is
waterboarding.
But that may simply be incomplete data.
Ilana Mercer documents many such incidents in her
article Tasers 'R' Us.
In December 2007 the City of Chicago, Illinois, paid four former death
row inmates $20 million to settle claims they were tortured by Chicago
police and wrongly convicted.
While we've heard convincing stories from men in
jails all across America about all these forms of torture, the one most
commonly used appears to be hypothermia. Many jails in the United States
have a "cold cell" where additional air conditioning ducts are run with
cold air blasting the inmates. Sometimes they simply turn down the
thermostat or heat isn't provided. The temperature in these cells seems
to be about 50° and prisoners have only their jump suits for warmth, as
no blankets are provided. A single day observing
DV court
in El Paso County (Colorado Springs), Colorado, was sufficient to
find one case of such treatment. Another case in Christian County,
Missouri, was reported to me while writing this. The best documented
case, however, is in Charleston, South Carolina, where David Bardes was
kept in a "cold cell" for three days, April 3-5,
2006, and nearly died. His ordeal is documented in his book
The Public Trust:
Statement of Fact.
There is little recourse and the public largely does
not believe it because, as far as they are concerned, men who are being
put in cold cells, tasered, sprayed, and beaten by police "must have
done something wrong" to have gained the attention of the police and the
courts. However, the major crime the men who contact the Equal Justice
Foundation are guilty of is being a father.
Who is John Galt?
Ayn Rand's
Atlas Shrugged and George Orwell's
1984 seem eerily prescient in the new millennia. The names are
changed but we have the endless war, the mindless demonization of an
amorphous enemy, the ceaseless monitoring of citizens, the arbitrary
detentions and torture, endless and meaningless government propaganda,
men presumed guilty unless and until they can prove their innocence,
secret courts, decisions based on emotions and feelings rather than
logic and reason, the destruction of our basic industries, etc.
In addition, the destruction of the patriarchy,
families, and marriage appears to be succeeding at a rate even the most
rabid redfem hardly dared dream of. The results of the alliance of the
DV and divorce industry can be seen in any inner city ghetto as DV laws
are disproportionately enforced against minorities. For blacks "domestic
violence" has become the new Jim Crow and the effects of family
breakdown are glaringly evident in black communities.
Regardless of what good intentions feminists of the
1960s had, it has become a form of public welfare in which these looters
obtain billions in public funds for the clear, if unstated, purpose of
destroying children, men, and families. As a result, modern feminism has
evolved two types of common, and readily recognizable, types of women:
Susie Looter:
Susie is typically a lawyer, or in some other parasitic profession like
victim's advocate (note that only women are "victims"), social worker
(CPS, CSE, or the like), but not a very good one. She has little
knowledge of the law but an acid tongue and many cronies in the court.
Susie probably has a Bachelor of Arts degree in sociology, psychology,
or, god forbid, women's studies. But it is certain she doesn't have any
formal training in deductive, inductive, or symbolic logic, which are
outdated methods of the patriarchy and the antithesis of her existence.
And while she constantly quotes statistics she has no training or
experience with quantitative analysis. One constant with Susie is a
desire to destroy the "patriarchy" that she claims oppresses and
subjugates women. Like all zealots, any means of doing so are justified
by her ideology. Men are going to pay for every real or imagined slight
she has ever received.
Julie Moocher: In
theory, Susie exists to serve the needs of Julie but, in practice, Susie
is often Julie's worst enemy. Julie is divorced or a single mother with
a couple of out-of-control kids of questionable paternity. She has
probably shacked up with a number of men who are, of course, the cause
of all her problems. If divorced she likely brought DV charges or got a
restraining order against her ex, who is now unemployed and a "deadbeat
dad" as a result. Commonly she has a substance abuse problem, alcohol,
prescription or illegal drugs, which is someone else's fault, of
course. On top of the substance abuse Julie is likely to have a
personality disorder or other mental problems. However, the world owes
her a living, an unquestioned presumption. But she has no education or
experience and no interest in getting any. No matter what happens, or
what she does, Julie is the "victim."
In the face of these conditions do you wonder why I
think we have entered the realm of the surreal? And why am I asking: "Who
is John Galt?" Because looters never have plans for the future, that
would require logic and reason, and injure their feelings and emotions
in the present. While the redfems are successfully destroying the
patriarchy according to all available evidence, and supplanting it with
matriarchies in our inner cities, I have
pointed
out that I can find no evidence that any matriarchy ever advanced
beyond a Stone Age level of technology. Clearly the de facto
matriarchies in our inner cities are rapidly regressing to that level
but redfems will feed on the carcass of our patriarchal civilization
until they have picked the bones clean. Then what? Throughout known
history only patriarchal families have farmed, mined, built, and
developed the technology on which our modern world rests.
I have no easy solutions and here I only outline the
problem. My only defense against this darkness is to document it. The
closest individual we have today to John Galt is
Congressman Ron Paul. If his
campaign succeeds a mighty burden will rest on him and I hope he can
bear the burden of Atlas on his shoulders.
Charles E. Corry, Ph.D., F.G.S.A.
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Everyone is a
reactionary about subjects he understands.
Robert
Conquest, a former Communist, is the author of many books on left-wing
“progressive” totalitarianism:
THE
GREAT TERROR
The Nation Killers
Lenin
Inside Stalin's
Secret Police
Stalin and the Kirov Murder
Stalin, Breaker of
Nations
http://www.spartacus.schoolnet.co.uk/HISconquest.htm
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Violence conjugale et femmes
immigrantes et des communautes ethnoculturelles : memoire de la FRHFVDQ a la
Commission Bouchard-Taylor
En contexte de violence
conjugale, les accommodements raisonnables devraient tenir compte des besoins
et des réalités des femmes immigrantes et des communautés ethnoculturelles
Mémoire de la Fédération de
ressources d’hébergement pour femmes violentées et en difficulté du Québec à
la Commission Bouchard-Taylor
Montréal, le 13 décembre 2007 –
La Fédération de ressources d’hébergement pour femmes violentées et en
difficulté du Québec soutient qu’un souci d’accommodement est souhaitable pour
éviter que les femmes immigrantes et des communautés ethnoculturelles victimes
de violence conjugale se retrouvent dans une situation où elles sont
doublement victimisées par la société d’accueil et par leur communauté.
Le parcours de ces femmes vers
une vie sans violence est souvent parsemé d’obstacles qui augmentent leur
situation de vulnérabilité. La méconnaissance du français et des ressources
existantes, l’ignorance de leurs droits, la peur de perdre leurs enfants sont
autant de barrières pouvant freiner leur démarche pour s’en sortir. À ces
facteurs s’ajoutent la peur de l’isolement et la pauvreté qu’entraîne le rejet
par leur famille et les membres de la communauté pour qui la violence
conjugale reste taboue et le divorce interdit.
Les défis que pose l’adaptation
des services en violence conjugale participent de la volonté de répondre plus
efficacement aux besoins des femmes immigrantes et des communautés
ethnoculturelles. Ces femmes partagent non seulement les besoins de la plupart
des femmes victimes de violence, soit la sécurité, la protection et
l’hébergement, pour elles et leurs enfants, mais également le besoin d’être
soutenues, accompagnées dans leur démarche et respectées dans leurs
spécificités culturelles et religieuses qui teintent le rythme de leur
cheminement vers une plus grande autonomie.
À l’instar de l’Avis du Conseil
du Statut de la femme, la Fédération reconnaît les valeurs collectives de
séparation de l’État et de la religion, de primauté du fait français et
d’égalité entre les femmes et les hommes mais en contexte de violence
conjugale, l’expérience a démontré qu’un accompagnement empreint de respect
contribue favorablement à l’intégration de ces femmes à la société québécoise.
Ainsi, tout accommodement, dans
une perspective d’harmonisation interculturelle, devrait s’inscrire dans la
lignée des principes de la politique gouvernementale de 1995 et des
engagements du Plan d’action 2004-2009 en matière de violence conjugale,
notamment l’engagement 58 (annexe 9) qui est de donner suite aux mesures
identifiées dans le Plan d’action en immigration du Ministère des Relations
avec les citoyens et de l’Immigration qui poursuivent l’objectif de prévenir
et de contrer la violence conjugale faite aux femmes immigrantes et issues des
communautés ethnoculturelles. Ces mesures touchent :
· l’accès aux services d’aide
ou de protection;
· la sensibilisation des intervenantes et des intervenants du réseau de la
santé et des services sociaux aux difficultés particulières vécues par
celles-ci;
· l’élaboration d’un programme de prévention de la violence conjugale
s’adressant aux jeunes issus des communautés culturelles avec une approche
adaptée aux valeurs de leur communauté et de celles de la société d’accueil;
· documenter la problématique de violence conjugale en contexte immigrant et
ethnoculturel.
La Fédération de ressources
d’hébergement pour femmes violentées et en difficulté du Québec invite la
Commission à tenir compte de ces recommandations dans l’élaboration de son
document final.
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Nouvelles publications : l’impact des
programmes sociaux sur les femmes a faible revenu
L’ICREF lance avec fierté un feuillet
d’information et un rapport de recherche dans sa série « Nouveaux regards sur
la justice économique et sociale : des femmes résistent à la pauvreté et à
l’exclusion ».
L’impact des programmes sociaux : Des femmes
à faible revenu racontent
Ce feuillet d’information présente divers
témoignages de femmes à faible revenu avec une analyse critique et des
informations détaillées sur l’impact de la dévolution des programmes sociaux.
Il présente des informations concluantes qui soulignent l’importance d’écouter
les femmes pour connaître les vrais problèmes auxquels doivent s’attaquer les
politiques et les programmes. Il s’inspire du rapport intitulé "Integrating
the voices of low-income women into policy discussions on Canada Social
Transfer (CST)" **, une recherche qualitative menée en 2007 dans trois villes
canadiennes avec des décideurs, des organismes de services sociaux et des
femmes à faible revenu autochtones, immigrantes, réfugiées et handicapées. Des
données quantitatives tirées de recherches antérieures viennent compléter le
tableau.
Il existe déjà des données quantitatives sur
les femmes en situation de pauvreté. Notre rapport de recherche apporte
cependant des récits qui viennent étoffer ces informations, car il signale des
problèmes trop souvent négligés dans ces études ou les analyses de politiques.
Nos recommandations confirment celles de nombreuses autres recherches sur le
même thème. Elles puisent toutefois dans le vécu de certaines des femmes les
plus marginalisées au Canada qui n’avaient jamais été consultées auparavant.
Ces femmes ont pu décrire comment les politiques fédérales et provinciales se
répercutent sur la vie des gens au bas de l’échelle.
Notre objectif était de connaître les
expériences et les points de vue de femmes marginalisées qui ont reçu de
l’aide sociale à un moment donné entre 1996 et maintenant. Nous leur avons
demandé de parler des politiques fédérales et provinciales qui les touchaient.
Il a été surtout question des programmes sociaux comme l’aide sociale et ses
modes de financement, mais aussi de l’assurance-emploi, des services de garde
d’enfants et des prestations fiscales. Pour situer les propos de nos
participantes, nous présentons quelques chiffres sur la situation des femmes
pauvres. Nous rappelons aussi les changements qui ont été apportés à la
sécurité sociale au milieu des années 1990 et qui ont mené à l’instauration du
Transfert canadien en matière de santé et de programmes sociaux (TCSPS).
Veuillez visiter notre site web afin
d’accéder aux deux documents :
www.criaw-icref.ca
** Cette recherche a été financée par le
fonds de recherche en matière de politiques de Condition féminine Canada.
Malheureusement, le fonds a été aboli avant la traduction et publication du
document
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Jim
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La question du port du voile à l'école vient d'être
remise au goût du jour
http://www.canoe.com/infos/dossiers/archives/2007/09/20070910-155228.html
C'est dire à quel point la commission Bouchard -Taylor a
encore du pain sur la planche mais il faut dire qu'elle a tiré les lignes
du prochain plan de match : la laïcité constitutionnelle. Cette laïcité
est nécessaire car la gestion des accommodements raisonnable est non
seulement risquée, mais aussi fort onéreuse.voire déjà le coût de la
commission Bouchard-Taylor !
On se souvient encore de l'affaire du petit Sikh qui
avait amené son symbole religieux à l'école, c'est à dire son poignard.
Cette affaire là aurait dû normalement faire comprendre ce qui est
réellement arrivé quand le petit Gurbaj Singh Multani est arrivé à l'école
avec ce couteau, apeurant ses camarades.
http://www.cyberpresse.ca/article/20060303/CPACTUALITES/60302067/0
Le couteau est un symbole religieux pour les Sikh. Ce
jour fatidique, les ennuis auraient pu commencer pour le jeune Gurbaj
Singh Multani. Il aurait pu rencontrer, qui, sait, les membres d'une bande
rivale, qui elle pratique une autre religion.
Le fait est là : la guerre qui divise les gangs dans la
guerre des gangs de rue a des bases religieuse ou raciales : les noirs
contre les blancs, les latinos contre les noirs etc.
http://www.erta-tcrg.org/cri6224/2004-2006/gangs_tamouls.htm
Ca commence à l'école, ca finit dans la rue.
Par conséquent, amener un symbole religieux à l'école
c'est plus qu'un tantinet provocateur. : c'est carrément suicidaire!
Une professeur musulmane décide d'enseigner voilée,
coûte que coûte. Serait-ce là une nouvelle façon de réintroduire l'antique
bonne sour à l'école, cette fois-ci susceptible de démontrer(grossesse)
les preuves d'une sexualité active? Enseigner voilée serait alors un
blasphème!.
La croyance est un rite qui sert les intérêts religieux,
elle utilise ses symboles propres, qui n'ont absolument rien à faire sur
le marché du travail. Que viendrait-elle alors faire dans un environnement
structuré, comme l'école (dont le but est d'envoyer des jeunes sur le
marché du travail)? Elle y détournera l'attention, corrompra les amitiés
sincères pour la transformer en lutte de classe. Le sang des rixes qu'elle
provoquera souilleront les pages des livres qui auraient dû servir à
élever les esprits. L'histoire avec un grand H montre très bien que
l'intolérance prédomine globalement sur toutes les bonnes intentions quand
les croyances se côtoient.
Ce qui était anodin se transformera en drame
épouvantable.
Comment par exemple, pourrait-on placer des cours
d'éducation sexuelle dans cette atmosphère? Parler d'avortement ou de
contraception équivaudra à se placer contre un mur et à attendre d'être
fusillé. Imaginez le trac de l'enseignante débutante obligée de parler de
sexualité à des religieux fanatisés. Ah! Parce que comme le montre
l'histoire de l'entretien des centrales nucléaires en Russie, il ne faut
pas s'imaginer que ce sera toujours au directeur à s'acquitter de cette
tâche très délicate. Il n'a pas vraiment de temps à lui. Alors tôt ou tard
malgré tous les meilleurs arguments au monde, il déléguera cette tâche
désagréable à un autre délégateur de tâches professionnel. Et Dieu sait
qu'il y en a dans les milieux de travail. Avec tous les risques associés
d'escalade dans la violence entre jeunes et professeurs, et entre jeunes..
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Putes soumises
Contre la prostitution
Avant de penser à lapider les prostituées, il faut
penser à élargir les libertés sexuelles de la femme. Plus de femmes "
non-payantes " se retrouvent sur le marché des célibataires, et plusieurs
des fréquentations qui en résultent finissent en mariage. On a pas à
choisir entre mariage ou prostitution, mais on vis une vie libre qui
permet à aux amours et aux idées de s'épanouir.
Et il faut aussi penser à réduire en quantité et en
qualité les facteurs de risque d'itinérance chez les femmes.
On se plaint que les femmes gagnent moins cher que
l'homme. Les femmes se retrouvent effectivement, sur le marché de
l'emploi, à occuper en majorité des emplois précaires et non-spécialisés.
Comme en petite entreprise, où trop souvent la gestion du personnel se
fait comme dans la lutte à l'incendie ; au jour au jour. Il est difficile
dans ces conditions adverses, pour une femme de penser à fonder une
famille ! Trop souvent elle se retrouve seule et vit exactement ce que les
hommes célibataires vivent dans les mêmes conditions de vie :
précarisation " psychologique " (incapacité d'engagement dû à un sentiment
d'insécurité permanent).
Il faut changer la société : les adolescentes (et les
adolescents aussi) ne devraient jamais se retrouver à la rue. S'ils
veulent travailler, les respecter dans leur choix. Il y a des adolescents
avec des désirs d'adultes. Ils ne sont pas pour autant débiles, et ont la
capacité de poursuivre leurs études. Une combinaison travail-études
devrait leur permettre d'accéder à l'autonomie souhaitée, tout en
poursuivant les objectifs nationaux en matière d'éducation. Certains
veulent aussi fonder une famille, dès l'adolescence (parfois 15 ans). Les
adolescents sont plus susceptibles d'engendrer un grand nombre d'enfants
que les autres catégories d'âge, ce qui pourrait permettre d'augmenter la
natalité de façon importante. Je dirais empiriquement qu'une femme a plus
de chance d'avoir plus d'enfants si elle commence tôt à en faire. Cette
dynamique se retrouve souvent chez les autochtones (voir traditions
autochtones). Même système à appliquer. Avantage spécifique d'utiliser le
système chez les autochtones : les autochtones, adolescents ou non, font
plus d'enfants que les autres canadiens.
Les jeunes au sortir du secondaire devraient aussi avoir
un métier et un diplôme en poche. Que ce soit en cuisine, en menuiserie
etc. Les jeunes sans diplôme, hommes et femmes confondues, seront plus
tentés d'utiliser leur corps pour faire de l'argent s'ils n'ont pas de
perspectives d'emplois payantes et/ou stimulantes, et si en plus ils sont
endettés. La capacité monétaire de fonder une famille assagit
considérablement.
En plus de donner des enfants, des travailleurs et des
payeurs de taxes à la société, plus d'autonomie et de sécurité à
l'adolescence permet d'empêcher des fêlés comme R. Pickton de penser qu'il
est légitime d'agir comme il l'a fait.
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La diffamation peut
être de la violence psychologique
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Georges Lafontaine
Attaché politique
Bureau de la députée de Gatineau
Cher monsieur
Lafontaine,
La lecture de votre
message m’a donné une joie délirante.
Quel déraillant
plaisir que de savoir que vous, et présumément, la femme politique à
laquelle vous êtes attaché, êtes pour une véritable ÉGALITÉ DES SEXES.
C’est avec une
jubilation déraisonnable que j’apprends que votre cerveau n’est pas
détourné et que vous croyez qu’une femme n’a aucune raison de se sentir
diminuée à être l’égale d’un homme.
Il y a tellement de
femmes de nos jours qui se « SAVENT » être supérieures aux hommes. Je suis
aise de croire que vous, et votre députée, allez vous joindre à la grande
campagne d’éducation de ces « féminocrates ».
Celles-ci, pauvres
victimes de la « façon de connaitre des femmes », ont de la difficulté à
saisir une idée simple, celle de
L’ÉGALITÉ DES
FEMMES ET DES HOMMES
ÉGALITÉ dans la
famille les femmes doivent générer ÉGALEMENT (50%) les revenus du
couple les femmes ne doivent contrôler qu’à ÉGALITÉ (50% et non pas 80%)
les dépenses les femmes doivent faire la moitié des taches ménagères
masculines
ÉGALITÉ SOCIALE
les femmes doivent mettre fin à toutes les discriminations sexistes « POSITIVEment »
anti-males les femmes doivent assumer la moitié (50% non pas 3%) des
emplois dangereux ET mortels
ÉGALITÉ FACE A LA
LOI les femmes doivent exiger l’ÉGALITÉ des peines et
condamnations pour les mêmes crimes les femmes doivent exiger la sévère
répression des fausses accusations, mensonges et parjures des femmes
ÉGALITÉ DANS LE
DIVORCE fin aux pensions alimentaires de toutes sortes; fin à
l’extorsion des biens du male; ÉGALITÉ (50%) de garde des enfants après
le divorce ou séparation
ÉGALITÉ DES DROITS
SUR LA PROCRÉATION égalité (50%) des droits sur la vie et la mort du
fœtus
ÉGALITÉ DES
RESSOURCES SOCIALES fin aux privilèges des femmes en éducation,
santé, programmes étatiques de toutes sortes
ÉGALITÉ DES
CONTRIBUTIONS FISCALES les femmes doivent payer la moitié (50%)
des impôts (et non pas 20%)
ÉGALITÉ FACE AU
HARCÈLEMENT SEXUEL punition équivalente aux formes féminines de
harcèlement sexuel
Il y a bien sur
d’autres, beaucoup, aspects de l’INÉGALITÉ DES HOMMES FACE AUX
FEMMES, mais ceci est un bon début pour débuter votre campagne d’éducation
des « féminocrates ».
Je délire déjà de
joie à vous voir, vous et votre maitresse à penser, commencer à défendre
la VÉRITABLE égalité des femmes ET des hommes.
Je vois déjà la fin
de tous les privilèges sexistes des femmes et la fin de la GRANDE NOIRCEUR
moyenâgeuse que nous infligent les « féminocrates ».
Défendre l’idée que
les femmes n’ont pas à se sentir diminuée à avoir autant, et NON pas plus,
de droits que les hommes est une position politique très, mais très
courageuse.
Bravo!
Vous remerciant
d’avance, je vous prie de bien vouloir agréer l’expression des mes
sentiments de gratitude les plus distinguées,
Gérard Levesque
(Natif de la région
de Gatineau)
________________________
Gérard Pierre LEVESQUE
Téléphone:
075 467 0561
Portable: 090 6557 0561
Mail:
levesque@m14.alpha-net.ne.jp
Merci d'avoir déliré dans notre boîte vocale. Ainsi donc
vous êtes contre l'égalité des sexes? Par quel détour de votre cerveau en
arrivé vous à vous sentir diminué parce que la femme serait l'égale de
l'homme. Et votre voisin, homme ou femme, vous sentez vous minable parce
qu'il vous considère comme son égal? Allons, monsieur soyez un peu
précieux. Nous ne sommes plus au moyen âge.
Georges Lafontaine
Attaché politique
Bureau de la députée de Gatineau
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Do Not Marry, Do Not Have Children
Excerpts:
Marriage is a foundation of civilized
life. No advanced civilization has ever existed without the married,
two-parent family.
…yet I cannot … urge young men to
marry today.
For many men … marriage has become
nothing less than a one-way ticket to jail.
… I have one urgent piece of practical
advice for young men today it is this:
Do Not Marry, Do Not Have
Children
… this message may … be the most
effective method of saving marriage as an institution.
… until we understand that the
principal threat to marriage today is not cultural but political, and that
it comes not from homosexuals but from heterosexuals, we will never
reverse the decline of marriage.
The main destroyer of marriage, it
should be obvious, is divorce.
… half of all marriages end in
divorce. But widespread misconceptions lead many to believe it cannot
happen to them.
… you do not have to agree to the
divorce or commit any legal transgression. Under “no-fault” divorce laws,
your spouse can divorce you unilaterally without giving any reasons.
The judge will then grant the divorce
automatically without any questions.
… not only does your spouse incur no
penalty for breaking faith; she can actually profit enormously.
Simply by filing for divorce, your
spouse can take everything you have, also without giving any reasons.
First, she will almost certainly get
automatic and sole custody of your children and exclude you from them,
without having to show that you have done anything wrong.
Then any unauthorized contact with
your children is a crime.
Yes, for seeing your own children you
will be subject to arrest.
… no burden of proof on the court to
justify why they are seizing control of your children and allowing your
spouse to forcibly keep you from them.
The burden of proof (and the financial
burden) is on you to show why you should be allowed to see your children.
The divorce industry thus makes it
very attractive for your spouse to divorce you and take your children.
While property divisions and spousal
support certainly favor women, the largest windfall comes through the
children.
With custody, she can then demand
“child support” that may amount to half, two-thirds, or more of your
income.
She may spend it however she wishes.
You pay the taxes on it, but she gets
the tax deduction.
You could easily be left with monthly
income of a few hundred dollars and be forced to move in with relatives or
sleep in your car.
Once you have sold everything you own,
borrowed from relatives, and maximized your credit cards, they then call
you a “deadbeat dad” and take you away in handcuffs.
You are told you have “abandoned” your
children and incarcerated without trial.
… as men discover all this, they have
already begun an impromptu marriage "strike": refusing to marry or start
families, knowing they can be criminalized if their wife files for
divorce.
In Britain, fathers tour university
campuses warning young men not to start families.
… the only protection for men to avoid
losing their children and everything else is not to start families in the
first place.
If people stop marrying, what will
become of the family and our civilization?
Marriage is already all but dead,
legally speaking, and divorce is the principal reason.
The fall in the Western birth rate is
directly connected with divorce law.
We will not restore marriage by
burying our heads in the sand; nor simply by preaching to young people to
marry…
The way to restore marriage as an
institution in which young people can place their trust, their children,
and their lives is to make it an enforceable contract.
We owe it to future generations … if
there are to be any.
Do Not Marry, Do Not Have Children
Stephen Baskerville, Ph.D.
Marriage is a foundation of civilized
life. No advanced civilization has ever existed without the married,
two-parent family. Those who argue that our civilization needs healthy
marriages to survive are not exaggerating.
And yet I cannot, in good conscience,
urge young men to marry today. For many men (and some women), marriage has
become nothing less than a one-way ticket to jail. Even the New York Times
has reported on how easily “the divorce court leads to a jail cell,”
mostly for men. In fact, if I have one urgent piece of practical advice
for young men today it is this: Do not marry and do not have children.
Spreading this message may also, in
the long run, be the most effective method of saving marriage as an
institution. For until we understand that the principal threat to marriage
today is not cultural but political, and that it comes not from
homosexuals but from heterosexuals, we will never reverse the decline of
marriage. The main destroyer of marriage, it should be obvious, is
divorce. Michael McManus of Marriage Savers points out that “divorce is a
far more grievous blow to marriage than today’s challenge by gays.” The
central problem is the divorce laws
It is well known that half of all
marriages end in divorce. But widespread misconceptions lead many to
believe it cannot happen to them. Many conscientious people think they
will never be divorced because they do not believe in it. In fact, it is
likely to happen to you whether you wish it or not.
First, you do not have to agree to the
divorce or commit any legal transgression. Under “no-fault” divorce laws,
your spouse can divorce you unilaterally without giving any reasons. The
judge will then grant the divorce automatically without any questions.
But further, not only does your spouse
incur no penalty for breaking faith; she can actually profit enormously.
Simply by filing for divorce, your spouse can take everything you have,
also without giving any reasons. First, she will almost certainly get
automatic and sole custody of your children and exclude you from them,
without having to show that you have done anything wrong. Then any
unauthorized contact with your children is a crime. Yes, for seeing your
own children you will be subject to arrest.
There is no burden of proof on the
court to justify why they are seizing control of your children and
allowing your spouse to forcibly keep you from them. The burden of proof (and
the financial burden) is on you to show why you should be allowed to see
your children.
The divorce industry thus makes it
very attractive for your spouse to divorce you and take your children.
(All this earns money for lawyers whose bar associations control the
careers of judges.) While property divisions and spousal support certainly
favor women, the largest windfall comes through the children. With custody,
she can then demand “child support” that may amount to half, two-thirds,
or more of your income. (The amount is set by committees consisting of
feminists, lawyers, and enforcement agents – all of whom have a vested
interest in setting the payments as high as possible.) She may spend it
however she wishes. You pay the taxes on it, but she gets the tax
deduction.
You could easily be left with monthly
income of a few hundred dollars and be forced to move in with relatives or
sleep in your car. Once you have sold everything you own, borrowed from
relatives, and maximized your credit cards, they then call you a “deadbeat
dad” and take you away in handcuffs. You are told you have “abandoned”
your children and incarcerated without trial.
Evidence indicates that, as men
discover all this, they have already begun an impromptu marriage "strike":
refusing to marry or start families, knowing they can be criminalized if
their wife files for divorce. "Have anti-father family court policies led
to a men's marriage strike?" ask Glenn Sacks and Dianna Thompson in the
Philadelphia Enquirer. In Britain, fathers tour university campuses
warning young men not to start families. In his book, From Courtship to
Courtroom, Attorney Jed Abraham concludes that the only protection for men
to avoid losing their children and everything else is not to start
families in the first place.
Is it wise to disseminate such advice?
If people stop marrying, what will become of the family and our
civilization?
Marriage is already all but dead,
legally speaking, and divorce is the principal reason. The fall in the
Western birth rate is directly connected with divorce law.
It is also likely that same-sex
marriage is being demanded only because of how heterosexuals have already
debased marriage through divorce law. “The world of no-strings
heterosexual hookups and 50% divorce rates preceded gay marriage,”
advocate Andrew Sullivan points out. “All homosexuals are saying…is that,
under the current definition, there’s no reason to exclude us. If you want
to return straight marriage to the 1950s, go ahead. But until you do, the
exclusion of gays is simply an anomaly – and a denial of basic civil
equality.”
We will not restore marriage by
burying our heads in the sand; nor simply by preaching to young people to
marry, as the Bush administration’s government therapy programs now do.
The way to restore marriage as an institution in which young people can
place their trust, their children, and their lives is to make it an
enforceable contract. We urgently need a national debate about divorce,
child custody, and the terms under which the government can forcibly
sunder the bonds between parents and their children. We owe it to future
generations, if there are to be any.
Stephen Baskerville, Ph.D., is
assistant professor of government at Patrick Henry College and President
of the American Coalition for Fathers and Children. His book, Taken Into
Custody: The War Against Fathers, Marriage, and the Family, has just been
published by Cumberland House Publishing.
Source:
http://mensnewsdaily.com/2007/11/14/do-not-marry-do-not-have-children/
Also/aussi :
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=Do+Not+Marry%2C+Do+Not+Have+Children+baskerville
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SEXUAL UTOPIA IN POWER
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Wal-Mart Yanks Pink 'Credit Card' Panties Off …
Suggestive pink Santa panties targeting young girls are being removed …
The panties … sold in … juniors … suggest that girls don't need money,
they just need a sugar daddy … Santa Claus.
The hipster briefs — carrying the slogan "Who needs credit cards ..." on
the front and "When you have Santa" on the derriere …
"There's nothing quite like telling adolescent girls that they don't need
to worry about finances since they have their very own money pot between
their legs" …
… just a cute T-shirt that says 'Just ask Santa'" …
Exactly how nice to Santa would the girl have to be in order to get stuff?"
http://www.foxnews.com/printer_friendly_story/0,3566,316580,00.html
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Les garçons n'auront pas de poupée cette année
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C'est la faute à El Niño
La diffamation peut
être de la violence psychologique
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Madame Rima Elkouri
La Presse
C'est très bien de votre part de poser un
regard, disons critique, sur le port du hijad comme vous le faites ce
matin dans La Presse. Il est cependant surprenant qu'aucun de nos
journalistes, nos chroniqueurs, dont vous, n'a pris la peine de jeter un
regard critique sur les propos sexistes mensongers statistiquement de la
ministre de la condition féminine, Christine St-Pierre, lors du
lancement de la campagne contre la violence conjugale. Étonnant, aussi,
le silence de nos chroniqueurs face au clip gouvernemental montrant un
homme en train d'agresser sa conjointe sans montrer le pendant féminin
de ce type de violence. Type de violence pourtant birectionnel démontré
par de nombreuses recherches scientifiques.
Il est tout de même inquiétant que, dans
notre société qui prétend être un exemple pour l'humanité, il soit
permis de dénigrer ainsi sans vergogne la moitié mâle de la
population sans que nos "penseurs" interviennent. Nos médias ont accordé
une place de choix au cas du gars qui a peint le drapeau de la Grèce sur
sa porte de garage. Méchante nouvelle! Ça m'a complètement retourné
les sens!... Mais pas autant que le mépris médiatique à l'endroit des
hommes hétérosexuels habilement orchestré par Christine St-Pierre, ministre responsable
de l'influent lobby tentaculaire féministe qui règne en maître au sein
de l'État québécois!
Cordialement
Jean-Pierre Gagnon
Beloeil
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SEXUAL UTOPIA IN POWER - FROM SEXUAL ANARCHY TO SEXUAL
TERROR
Excerpts:
… (a) cliché of political philosophy
that the less self-restraint citizens are able to exercise, the more they
must be constrained from without.
This is what gradually happened in the
case of the sexual revolution also, with the role of Jacobins/Bolsheviks
being assumed by the feminists.
Young women cannot be expected to work
out a personal system of sexual ethics in the manner of Descartes
reconstructing the universe in his own mind.
If you cease to prepare them for
marriage, they will seek guidance wherever they can find it. In the past
thirty years they have found it in feminism, simply because the feminists
have outshouted everyone else.
After helping to encourage sexual
experimentation by young women, feminism found itself able to capitalize
on the unhappiness which resulted.
The feminists approve the notion of a
right to do as one pleases without responsibilities toward others; they
merely insist that only women have this right.
Looking about them for some legal and
moral basis for enforcing this novel claim, they hit upon the age-old
prohibition against rape.
Feminists understand rape, however,
not as a violation of a woman’s chastity or marital fidelity, but of her
merely personal wishes.
They are making use of the ancient law
against rape to enforce not respect for feminine modesty but obedience to
female whims.
Their ideal is not the man whose
self-control permits a woman to exercise her own, but the man who is
subservient to a woman’s good pleasure—the man who behaves, not like a
gentleman, but like a dildo.
. On the new view, in which consent
rather than the marriage bond is the issue, the same sexual act may be a
crime on Monday or Wednesday and a right on Tuesday or Thursday, according
to the shifts in a woman’s mood.
If women want to be free to do as they
please with men, after all, why should not men be free to do as they
please with women?
Indeed, the date rape campaign owes
its success only to the lingering effect of older views.
Feminists themselves are not confused
about this; they write openly of “redefining rape.”
Of course, for those of us who still
speak traditional English, this amounts to an admission that they are
falsely accusing men.
… the only people profiting from the imposition of the new
standards are the feminists who invented them.
The survival of their movement depends
on a continuing supply of resentful women who believe their rights are
being violated; one can only admit that the principles which buttress the
date rape campaign are admirably designed to guarantee such a supply.
Feminism is a movement that thrives on
its own failures; hence, it is very difficult to reverse.
The thinking behind the sexual
harassment movement is that women are entitled to “an environment free
from unwanted sexual advances.”
What sort of advances are unwanted?
In plain English, those made by
unattractive men.
Anyone who has been forced to endure a
corporate anti harassment video can see that what is being condemned is
merely traditional male courtship behavior.
Men are being denied due process,
ruined professionally, and threatened with particularly harsh punishments
for any retaliation against the women accusing them of a newly invented
and deliberately ill-defined crime.
They may, for prudential reasons,
outwardly conform to the new rules.
But it is unlikely that the
traditional reluctance in foro interno to use force against women
can long survive the present pattern of female behavior.
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SEXUAL UTOPIA IN POWER
FROM SEXUAL ANARCHY TO SEXUAL TERROR
It is
a cliché of political philosophy that the less self-restraint citizens are
able to exercise, the more they must be constrained from without.
The practical necessity of such a trade-off can be seen in such
extraordinary upheavals as the French and Russian Revolutions.
First, old and habitual
patterns and norms are thrown aside in the name of freedom. When the
ensuing chaos becomes intolerable, some group with the requisite ambition,
self-assurance and ruthlessness succeeds in forcibly imposing its own
order on the weakened society.
This
is what gradually happened in the case of the sexual revolution also, with
the role of Jacobins/Bolsheviks being assumed by the feminists.
Human beings cannot do without some
social norms to guide them in their personal relations.
Young women cannot be expected to work
out a personal system of sexual ethics in the manner of Descartes
reconstructing the universe in his own mind. If you cease to prepare them
for marriage, they will seek guidance wherever they can find it. In the
past thirty years they have found it in feminism, simply because the
feminists have outshouted everyone else. After helping to encourage sexual
experimentation by young women, feminism found itself able to capitalize
on the unhappiness which resulted. Their program for rewriting the
rules of human sexual behavior is in one way a continuation of the
liberationists’ utopian program and in another way a reaction against it.
The feminists
approve the notion of a right to do as one pleases without
responsibilities toward others; they merely insist that only women have
this right.
Looking about them for some legal and moral basis for enforcing this novel
claim, they hit upon the age-old prohibition against rape. Feminists
understand rape, however, not as a violation of a woman’s chastity or
marital fidelity, but of her merely personal wishes.
They are making use of the ancient law against rape to enforce not respect
for feminine modesty but obedience to female whims.
Their ideal is not the man
whose self-control permits a woman to exercise her own, but the man who is
subservient to a woman’s good pleasure—the man who behaves, not like a
gentleman, but like a dildo.
But mere disregard of a woman’s
personal wishes is manifestly not the reason men have been disgraced,
imprisoned, in some societies even put to death for the crime of rape.
On the new view, in which consent rather
than the marriage bond is the issue, the same sexual act may be a crime on
Monday or Wednesday and a right on Tuesday or Thursday, according to the
shifts in a woman’s mood. Feminists claim rape is not taken
seriously enough; perhaps it would be better to ask how it could be taken
seriously at all once we begin defining it as they do.
If women want to be free
to do as they please with men, after all, why should not men be free to do
as they please with women?
Indeed, the date rape campaign owes its success only to the lingering
effect of older views. Feminists themselves are not confused about this;
they write openly of “redefining rape.” Of course, for those of us who
still speak traditional English, this amounts to an admission that they
are falsely accusing men. One might have more
sympathy for the “date rape victims” if they wanted the men to marry them,
feared they were ruined for other suitors, and were prepared to assume
their own obligations as wives and mothers. But this is simply not the
case. The date rape campaigners, if not
the confused young women themselves, are hostile to the very idea of
matrimony, and never propose it as a solution. They want to jail men, not
make responsible husbands of them. This is far worse than shotgun
marriage, which at least allowed the man to act as father to the child he
had sired.
And what benefit do women derive from
imprisoning men as date rapists apart from gratification of a desire for
revenge? Seeing men punished may even confirm morally confused women in
their mistaken sense of victimhood—resentment
tends to feed upon itself, like an itch that worsens with scratching.
Women are reinforced in the belief that it is their right for men’s
behavior to be anything they would like it to be. They become less
inclined to treat men with respect or to try to learn to understand or
compromise with them.
In a word, they learn to think and behave like spoiled children, expecting
everything and willing to give nothing.
Men,
meanwhile, respond to this in ways that are not difficult to predict.
They may not (at first) decline sexual liaisons with such women, because
the woman’s moral shortcomings do not
have too great an effect upon the sexual act itself. But, quite rationally,
they will avoid any deeper involvement with them. So
women experience fewer, shorter, and
worse marriages and “relationships” with men. But they do not blame
themselves for the predicament they are in; they refuse to see any
connection between their own behavior and their loneliness and
frustration. Thus we get ever more frequent characterizations of
men as rapists and predators who mysteriously refuse to commit.
Indeed, the only people profiting from the imposition of the new standards
are the feminists who invented them. The survival of their movement
depends on a continuing supply of resentful women who believe their rights
are being violated; one can only admit that the principles which buttress
the date rape campaign are admirably designed to guarantee such a supply.
Feminism is a movement that thrives on its own failures; hence, it is very
difficult to reverse.
Merriam-Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary,
eleventh edition, lists the first recorded use of the term
date rape as 1975. Within a few years we find Thomas Fleming of
Chronicles, for example, employing the expression as uncritically
as any feminist zealot. 4 A second
instrument of the feminist reign of sexual terror, “sexual harassment,”
similarly made its first appearance in 1975. In less than a generation
this has become a national industry providing a comfortable living for
many people. Yet again we find this revolutionary concept blithely
accepted by many male traditionalists. They are content to accept without
argument that there exists a widespread problem of men “harassing” women,
and that “something must be done about it.” My first thought would be:
What did the Romans do about it? What did
the Christian Church do about it? How about the Chinese or the Aztecs? The
obvious answer is that none of them did anything about it, because the
concept has only recently developed within the context of the feminist
movement. Is this not cause for suspicion?
Why are men so quick to
adopt the language of their declared enemies?
The thinking behind the sexual
harassment movement is that
women are entitled to “an environment free from unwanted
sexual advances.” What sort of advances are unwanted? In plain English,
those made by unattractive men. Anyone who has been forced to endure a
corporate anti harassment video can see that what is being condemned is
merely traditional male courtship behavior.
The introduction of harassment law was
accompanied by a campaign to inform young
women of the new entitlement. Colleges, for example, instituted harassment
committees one of whose stated purposes was “to encourage victims to come
forward.” (I saw this happening up close.) The agitators wanted
as many young women as possible accusing unsuccessful suitors of
wrongdoing.
And they had considerable success;
many women unhesitatingly availed themselves of the new dispensation.
Young men found
they risked visits from the police for flirting or inviting women on
dates.
This female bullying should be
contrasted with
traditional male chivalry. Men, at least within Western Civilization, have
been socialized into extreme reluctance to use force against women. This
is not an absolute principle: few would deny that a man has a right of
self-defense against a woman attempting to kill him. But many men will
refuse to retaliate against a woman under almost any lesser threat. This
attitude is far removed from the feminist principle of equality between
the sexes. Indeed, it seems to imply a view of men as naturally
dominant: It is a form of noblesse oblige.
And it is not, so far as I can see, reducible to any long-term
self-interest on the part of a man; in other words, it is a principle of
honor. The code of chivalry holds that a man has no moral right to use
force against women simply because he can do so. An obvious
difficulty with such a code is that it is vulnerable to abuse by its
beneficiaries. I
had a classmate in grade school who had heard it said somewhere that “boys
are not supposed to hit girls.” Unfortunately, she interpreted this to
mean that it was acceptable for girls to hit boys, which she then
proceeded to do. She became genuinely indignant when she found that they
usually hit back.
The
special character of noblesse oblige is that it does not involve a
corresponding entitlement on the part of the beneficiary. On the
traditional view, a man should indeed be reluctant to use force against
women, but women have no right to presume upon this. The reluctance is
elicited by a recognition of women’s weakness, not commanded as a
recognition of their rights. Perhaps because
women are the weaker sex, they have never
developed any similar inhibitions about using force against men. In
a traditionally ordered society, this does not present difficulties,
because a woman’s obligations to her husband are clearly understood and
socially enforced. But the situation changes when millions of spoiled,
impressionable young women have been convinced men are “harassing” them
and that the proper response is to appeal to force of law and the police
powers of the state. Men are being denied
due process, ruined professionally, and threatened with particularly harsh
punishments for any retaliation against the women accusing them of a newly
invented and deliberately ill-defined crime. They may, for prudential
reasons, outwardly conform to the new rules. But it is unlikely that the
traditional reluctance in foro interno to use force against women
can long survive the present pattern of female behavior. Women
would do well to ponder this.
Source:
http://theoccidentalquarterly.com/archives/vol6no2/DevlinTOQV6N2.pdf
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