Content d'être un gars
Glad to be a guy

Dimanche, le 24 juillet 2005
Sunday, July 24 2005

Le rapport Rondeau (Les hommes: s'ouvrir à leurs réalités et répondre à leurs besoins) a été remis au Ministère de la Santé et des services sociaux le  7 janvier 2004. Depuis cette date, le document serait toujours «à l'étude.»

Les femmes sont crédules

Une étude publiée récemment par le gouvernement du Québec révèle que, chaque année au Québec, 300 000 femmes croient tous les mensonges féministes qui leur sont racontés 

Les masculinistes

“I wish to propose for the reader’s favourable consideration a doctrine which may, I fear, appear wildly paradoxical and subversive. The doctrine in question is this: that it is undesirable to believe a proposition when there is no ground whatever for supposing it true.”

(Bertrand Russel from “Introduction: On the Value of Scepticism”, Sceptical Essays [London: Allen & Unwin, 1928])

David et PitBou

 

Dictionnaire de la condition masculine

Journée de l'homme

Les Quatrièmes Rencontres Gynarchistes auront lieu à proximité de Genève les 15 et 16 octobre 2005

La violence faite aux hommes.
Une réalité qui dépasse la fiction? Pas du tout!

 

Heinekken

The Washington Times, Op-Ed Commentary, July 19, 2005.

Fatal flaws: VAWA 2005

By Gordon E. Finley
July 19, 2005

For the past decade, the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA), which comes before the Senate Judiciary Committee for a reauthorization hearing today, has been a nearly $ 1 billion-dollar-a-year tax-supported industry based upon fatal flaws in three areas: (A) conception, (B) discrimination, and (C) administration.

(A) Conceptually, Domestic Violence (DV) programs are predicated on the false presumption men always are the predatory perpetrators and women always the innocent victims. By contrast, the strongest and most consistent finding in decades of worldwide empirical DV research is that both men and women initiate DV at about equal rates and men are at least one-third of the physically harmed victims. A second conceptual fatal flaw is that the only solution to DV is to break up the family and isolate men rather than provide social and counseling services to reunite families that can be rehabilitated.

(B) VAWA operates at such a high level of blatant sex discrimination it could not pass muster under Title IX of the Education Amendments of 1972, which prohibits sex discrimination in educational programs. VAWA application forms explicitly state programs providing services for men need not apply. Nor are there requirements that women (who initiate one-half of the disputes) take anger management classes to work out their differences equitably with men.
    
(C) Tragically, the VAWA administration also seems to have fallen under the control of gender superiority ideologues who misuse tax dollars to destroy families. These tax dollars also are used to institute "must arrest" policies where a parent (almost always the father) must be arrested during a domestic dispute even when there is no physical contact and even over the objection of the other parent. These tax dollars would be better spent providing counseling for both parents.

So, what to do?

There is a wide range of views among members of Congress who soon must vote on the reauthorization of VAWA -- as well as the general public. For those with concerns about VAWA, there are but two choices: sunset or rewrite. My view is VAWA is so harmful to children and fathers it should be sunsetted.

Interestingly, while many members of Congress are fearful of a women's backlash if they vote for sunset, they appear oblivious to a growing men's backlash vote. Republicans, in particular, seem to forget they owe their political ascension to overwhelming support from males and their spouses.

Further, there is some evidence the women's block vote is less unified than it once was. The first comes from the small turnout to elect Gloria Steinem as president of NOW. The second is more elusive but surfaces as multiple fissures on multiple issues in heterosexual women who appear to be at a crossroads on women's issues. For VAWA, the critical question will be whether heterosexual women want to support a program that may destroy the lives of men in their family of origin (grandfathers, uncles, fathers, brothers, cousins) as well as current relationships (husband, boyfriend, friends, coworkers).

On the other hand, rewriting VAWA to correct fatal flaws will be a daunting task with a very short time line. Below are a few examples of required changes.

• First, and most critically, allegations of DV should be tried in criminal court with the protection of due process. If the allegations are unsubstantiated, the focus should be on family preservation and counseling services. If the allegations are substantiated, rehabilitation services should be considered.

• Second, following Title IX, sex discrimination must be eliminated throughout and the focus should be on victim need.

• Third, everyone should "follow the money." Administratively, it seems past VAWA funds have flowed to groups espousing a gendered political agenda. Two groups conspicuously absent from funding are men's programs and religious institutions. Religious institutions, along with the family, traditionally have been considered as bedrock social institutions. In my view, religious institutions should expand their ministries to meet two currently underserved but dramatically evident family needs: DV and divorce.

While men's shelters and religious organizations lack a track record because of past discrimination, they should be considered on an equal footing with existing providers. Indeed, if reauthorized, a new mechanism must be established for fair distribution of VAWA monies on the basis of victim need.

• Finally, for a comprehensive understanding of VAWA, two Web sites provide fine-grained analyses and excellent critiques: (www.mediaradar.org) and (www.VAWA4ALL.org). Both should be required reading for members of Congress as well as the interested public.
    
Gordon E. Finley is a professor of psychology at Florida International University.

 

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Le vendredi 15 juillet 2005

Harcèlement et paranoïa

Jean-Pierre Gagnon

Beloeil

Une récente étude de Statistique Canada concernant le harcèlement et la violence dont seraient victimes les Canadiens, risque de se transformer en véritable paranoïa collective.

Déjà, des déclarations alarmistes ont fait leur apparition. Ainsi, une intervenante de la maison La Dauphinelle à Montréal s'est empressée d'affirmer: «Je suis inquiète pour toutes les femmes. Ça ne devrait pas exister au XXIe siècle.» Déclaration mélodramatique qui ne repose sur aucun fondement scientifique.

Or, entre les perceptions qu'ont les gens de la violence et la plate évidence des chiffres, il y a une marge. Plus une société vit dans la sécurité, et plus le moindre geste, la moindre parole deviennent suspectes.

Le 16 juin dernier, l'Institut de la statistique du Québec confirmait que, contrairement à ce qui est véhiculé par certains organismes avaleurs de subventions de toutes sortes, notre société n'a jamais été aussi pacifique. Entre 1983 et 2003, le Québec a connu une importante réduction des crimes contre la personne. Ainsi, les agressions sexuelles, les voies de fait graves, sont passées de 1018 en 1992 à 473 en 2003, soit une diminution de 54%...

Là où les citoyens québécois sont le plus en danger, c'est lorsqu'ils traversent une rue ou lorsqu'ils prennent le volant de leur automobile: 84 piétons morts et 647 décès sur les routes en 2004...

Industrie du Divorce - Québec - Flot des Ressources $

The begining of a great adventure

 

 

Archie Bunker's America

 

TV in an Era of Change, 19681978

 

Canadian Culture Clash, Parade Problems

An Ottawa police detective who gives sexual harassment sensitivity training to taxi drivers was accused of being insensitive herself for suggesting that some cultures don't treat women with the respect they warrant, according to the Ottawa Citizen.

Det. Theresa Kelm is charged with explaining to drivers what constitutes acceptable behavior toward women in Canada and what types of actions or remarks cross the line into harassment or assault.

"Some of this behaviour may be acceptable in the countries they are from," Det. Kelm told an interviewer. "Our message to them is that it's not acceptable here, and it won't be tolerated."

The comment was made in a story about a cab driver who was convicted of sexually assaulting a female passenger, the third case of its kind in the Ottawa area in the past year.

Yousef Al Mezel, president of the union that represents Ottawa taxi drivers, called the comment racist because it implied that Canadian culture was superior to that of other countries in terms of its attitude toward women.

A police spokeswoman said the idea that in some countries disrespect of women is acceptable "does not reflect the views of the Ottawa Police Service."

Moral Capital and the Courts

Why stop with non-judges?

C'est rien qu'un char

Séparés à la naissance
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Polémique

Vénus callipyge

Elles ne pensent qu'à ça

Foufounes power

Ce moment de thérapie visuelle permet d'insensibiliser les mâles aux appâts qui pourraient servir à les piéger.

Le sage se pose des questions quand sa blonde le défie de sauter en bungy.



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